What is going on?

I don't know how to feel today. One of my good friends, Heidi Anderson's 6 week old baby died this morning after fighting for her life for 6 long weeks. Another crazy thing about it, I'm pretty sure it was from kidney failure which is ultimately what Miles died from. Why is this happening so much lately? It seems like everywhere I go I hear about someone who had a pre-mie baby or MAJOR problems in their pregnancy, or their baby died. It makes me terrified to be pregnant ever again! Sometimes I feel like this must be another sign of the times or something. Like there must still be a lot of spirits in the pre-earth life that still need to get their bodies before the second coming but dont necissarily need to stay here so a lot of them are being sent down now to "hurry" and get their bodies. Maybe it's because this just happened to me I am hearing about it a lot, but it just seems to be happening a lot. I just hope it stops happening so much! It is NOT fun!! I am actually feeling pretty happy today, but I just ache for Heidi and her family because I know the road ahead. (Or at least the road ahead for 5 weeks). Obviously this whole thing is still new and very raw for me, but I hope through this experience so far, I can help others who are given this same trial or have to go through having death in their family. In this Wonderful book I am reading (oh and the name of it is "Joy Cometh in the Morning: A story of Healing from the Loss of a Child" by Fran C. Hafen) the woman writing it talks about how through this trial it helped her and her husband be able to comfort others and be there for others who are going through really hard trials when most other people seem to pull away because they don't want to "bother them" or don't know how to react or what to say. I hope that I can be like that. I have found that being the one going through the trial I want others to call me or talk to me. But before going through this when I heard of other people going through hard things I didn't ever call or talk to them because I never knew what to say and I felt akward. But now I know you really don't have to say anything, just be there!!! That is how I feel today, I want to be there for others. I want to have the spirit with me to prompt me to help comfort others. I hope that is one thing Heavenly Father wanted me to learn how to do through going through this.